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Friday, August 27, 2010

I'm a little bit strange, but here comes the twist. I might get even stranger than this.

So i know its been a year and some change seems like since i've blogged...but well alots been going on. And i have been motivated to write. But tonight i'd figured i'd hit you with what makes me relationship strange

1. I've never been in a committed relationship.
22 and never claimed somebody, I know strange right. However, i've never felt the need to be. I see the benefit in being in a committed relationship, but I also never been with someone who I wanted to be the only person I was talking to.

2. It's not cheating that bothers me so much as lying.
Now i don't really think that makes me strange. However, let me elaborate. I don't really care about anything long as you're honest. I guess i'm for open relationships. I couldn't care less what you do unless you feel like you have to lie about it. If you can't be upfront...than you shouldn't be doing it.

3.It's not that I don't care it's just that i'm more of a let it flow type.
I care, I really do, but if something is meant to happen, it will. Thats pretty much my life motto. So I tend not to stress, or worry about relationships. I get emotional but thats usually only with my sisters. I'm not cold i'm just not dramatic.

4. I'm not fighting for you.
I don't mean physically. I mean i'm not fighting for you. There is nothing I can do to make you stay if you don't want to. So i'm not stressing myself. I don't pressure ppl i love and maybe that is one of my downfalls, but please believe, i'm not for the extras. I just have to much life to live than to try to add someone who isn't sure they want to be there.

5. This is last for now....i don't have time for the 'representative'
If I can't be me and enjoy being who I am around you...we'll never succeed. Honestly, i am me. I'm quirky, slow, hard working, opinionated, stubborn, silly, difficult, fun, old fashioned, musical, a shopaholic and much more. If i can't be all i am, the dynamic loner that i tend to be with you than there is no hope.